This girl, is so beautiful, but she barely talks to me.

I don't like her just because of her body.
She has a very outgoing personality.
She never talks or acts crazy in school, (that much)
I texted her and asked her why she didn't have a boyfriend and she said she was afraid to talk to this guy she liked, soo yeah. Then I told her I wanted her to be happy and then she said thanks.
I'm pretty sure she has a feeling I like her, at least her friends think so.
I told her she was pretty/beautiful a few times and she never replied to my texts.
She sits next to me in school all day.
Here's a pic
What should I do?

 

Does she sit next to you out of her own choice? (I.E. you sit down, she sits down next to you), or are there like assigned seats?

 

Assigned seats, and we talk sometimes, like you know...

 

Maybe talk to her more and have conversations in person as opposed to texting her.... texts are the worst form of communication, especially when saying something genuine.
If she sits next to you in class then you're in a perfect position to slowly ease into getting to know her. Every time you see her at the beginning of the class make sure you say hey, then you could ask her politely to borrow a *fill in the blank* - use her first name when you get her attention. Always smile around her and always be happy when you're in her presence - you want her to know you have confidence.

But yeah, texting is a NO. After a few times of having greeted her and some small instances of small talk, then have complete face-to-face conversations with her.

 

Thanks, and she ignores my texts on purpose most of the time cause she says it pisses me off. I guess she likes pissing me off? Idk. But she likes someone else, and i'm ugly...

 

Wow, don't say that..

Build up your confidence and self-esteem.

Once you attain a confidence level of 110%, you will feel so good.

As previously suggested, a simple 'hi' to her each time you see her in class followed by a 'how are you?' is all that's needed to engage with her.

Try it the next time you see her.

Although she may have feelings for another person, don't give up if you really do have feelings for her.

You've found your 'goal' so it's time to pursue it.

 

Wow thanks. That motivated me a lot. I'm going to say hi to her tomorrow

And she needed help opening something that was glued today so she asked me to help or her friend or something so i opened it and she was like "muscular!"
That made me happy xD

 

Remember dude, you may think a girl may want the hottest body/richest dude, etc. but girls REALLY love a confident guy. Even if it's a facade and you're really nervous and shy, act confident and it'll show.

It actually sounds like she's into you.. She's making jokes with you and getting you a little mad lol. Don't worry about the guy she "likes". It goes the same for guys - I sometimes flirt/talk to other girls when I know the girl I actually like is paying attention, just to make them a bit jealous so they want you all that more.

Hell, it may even be sort of a test - stay confident dude!

 

As Alt said, texting really is a no-no if you don't talk to her on regular basis anyway, and when I say talk I mean full, interesting conversations. Texting someone frequently, especially when you don't know them all that wall (I'm assuming you don't) leads to nothing but social awkwardness with that person, trust me, from first hand experience.

Just like Jeff said, confidence is a BIG freaking deal. A confident average looking guy, is just as good as a hot, shy guy to a girl. You play with what your given, and unlike looks, confidence is something you can always change. You shouldn't be afraid to talk to her, and you should be saying some sort of greeting everytime you see her (passing periods, lunch, not just in class).

You don't want to be calling her beautiful, or gorgeous if you don't know her too well. If you do, it'll just come off as creepy/stalkerish. Now there's nothing wrong with telling her those things, if shes talking about how she thinks she isn't pretty or something, but just casually saying that is odd.

As far as this other guy goes, play your cards right, always be there for her, and even if you don't get her now, there's nothing wrong with catching a rebound. It's not like highschool relationships last very long anyway(I'm in highschool as well), and that's if she can muster up the confidence to talk to the guy in the first place.

 

Be confident but definitely not too cocky, that'll definitely turn her off.

 

As in she genuinely enjoys making you angry? This could be friendly playing or flirting. Who knows? consistently ignoring you is kind of rude though.

And don't say that you're ugly. Self esteem is key. This may sound cliché but everyone is beautiful in many aspects and you're going to find someone that will see all of those, I promise. It may be this girl, it may be someone else. But NEVER give up. Take risks and put yourself out there.

 

I think you made it obvious what your intentions were. You need to be subtle and make her wonder.

 

Unless you can play it off as a joke, then it's cool.

 

It is unfortunate, but it sounds to me like she doesn't share the same feelings for you right now that you have for her. I think this mainly because after complimenting her she has never replied to your text, and because she told you that she likes another guy. This other guy could possibly be the thing that is in your way right now and keeping her from responding to you fully.

If I were you, I would start working on turning her attention and thoughts from whatever douchebag she is thinking about, to you instead Don't come on too strong to her as you don't want to freak her out or make it look like you are trying way too hard, but I would say hi when you see her at school everyday, make conversations with her and make her laugh, ask her lots of questions about herself and what kinds of things she likes etc.

Girls love a guy who is confident and sure of himself, as well as the chance to talk. We all know girls LOVE blabbing, and one thing I see guys doing too often that ruins their chances with girls is they completely dominate the conversation when they are talking to a woman. While you are talking, make sure you give her lots of questions and/or opportunities to talk about herself. This will make her feel important, and if you are interested in what she is saying, she will pick up on that and it will probably boost her confidence a little bit too when she talks to you.

That sort of thing is really good because it means that slowly she will start to feel very good around you and very comfortable being your friend, and that other dude will start to drift out of her mind and will be replaced with you

 

Yeah, do this, change the way you act. But still show small signs that you like her.

 

hmmm.i think you could talk with her directly .
like i love you ,aha..

 

She blocked my number and ignores me now...

 

Tell her you wanna go hang out at the gym and hit the treadmills or something lol, then she'll have a body you'd admire more and you could get that quality time outside of class.

 

Get your confidence up, one of my friends is dating a really attractive girl and hes not that attractive at all.. but he has CONFIDENCE

 

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