Can time get you out of the Friend Zone?

[ignitiion *BANNED*]

So, i was only wondering this because it would of apply to my situation right now. Long story short, there's a girl at my school that i used to be into last year which was cool and all but i felt like she wasn't really interested when she was, but i had waited too long at that point. So basically we remained very loosely friends for the rest of the school year, from December-June or so, since we had a class together but i made no real effort to talk to her. Now the next school year is coming around again and we hung out today with a mutual friend and i felt myself feeling attraction for her again. I haven't talked to this girl constantly for about 6 months come the beginning of school, and keep in mind i've already known her for a year. Do you think that time could have possibly dissipated the friend zone, and i could start over on a clean slate with her? Thanks for reading this wall of text!

You're best off just trying small things and see what she does.
Such as when you're next to her, talking to her, put your hand on her leg and see what she does. Don't make out as if you were meant to do it, just be natural with it, if she lets you then try other small things with her.
Eventually you can get yourself into a situation were she has to take the move.

[Grim Reaper]

You'll need to hang out with her and see how she reacts, perhaps you'll get a better understanding about how she feels about you and you'll see if that friendship can be gained again like before. I think you should become friends but not wait too long before asking her out but rebuilding the friendship factor is important in this situation in my opinion.

[Schismatic *BANNED*]

Perhaps she's too shy to talk to you. Take some initiative, but don't be pushy. Get to know her better. If she's not interested in that, you're better off finding yourself another girl who does give you a chance.

[DrinkingHard]

Best way to get out of the friends zone is get to a party and get the booze going... Since ancient times booze has been the magic that opens up the secret door out of the friendszone

[-Bat]

It is possible but to be honest it is a very rare thing...I know you probably don't want to hear it, but the best thing is to just move on. If you don't it will leave you hurting for a long time.

[ignitiion *BANNED*]

Alright, i think i'm in the friend zone :P Read all the responses, thanks! She texted me first the night after we hung out and she even initiates conversations with me first sometimes, i think i'm one of her good friends. Not gonna mess things up

[Schismatic *BANNED*]

Originally Posted by ignitiion

Alright, i think i'm in the friend zone :P Read all the responses, thanks! She texted me first the night after we hung out and she even initiates conversations with me first sometimes, i think i'm one of her good friends. Not gonna mess things up

Well, she shows interest, that's a good thing. Just take things slow, see how it goes.

[Infadel]

Patience my friend. Also, you can't give up. If she's the one you have to fight to get her love. I mean not literally fight, just be there for her, you know. Then she wouldn't mind being with you

[Chosenn One]

I've learnt that it is near impossible to get out of the friend zone.
There was one girl who I was really tight with in high-school, she was gorgeous and intelligent. We would be open to talk about anything with each other, which was when I realised "yep, we're in the friend-zone".

I've tried subtle and unsubtle ways to get out of it and have a sexual experience (not relationship) with her but na-da

With time, and in your case 6months, I think it'd still be hard to get out of the friend zone cause say you guys hang out again, the connection you guys had 6months ago will just naturally come back and you're in that rut again. But I wish you the best Although I think it's impossible, some people are persistent enough to keep trying.

[Heatherlikespie *BANNED*]

Guy above me is not okay to have a sexual relationship of any kind before you start dating...


I have a best friend whos a guy and i know he likes me but the thing is, i want a person whos not afraid to tell me there feelings.

So what im saying is, open your feellings AND FOR THE LOVE OF HUMANITY DO IT FACE TO FACE.

Girls HATE IT when you use phone, online or those stuff. Only face to face!

[Annex]

Originally Posted by ignitiion

So, i was only wondering this because it would of apply to my situation right now. Long story short, there's a girl at my school that i used to be into last year which was cool and all but i felt like she wasn't really interested when she was, but i had waited too long at that point. So basically we remained very loosely friends for the rest of the school year, from December-June or so, since we had a class together but i made no real effort to talk to her. Now the next school year is coming around again and we hung out today with a mutual friend and i felt myself feeling attraction for her again. I haven't talked to this girl constantly for about 6 months come the beginning of school, and keep in mind i've already known her for a year. Do you think that time could have possibly dissipated the friend zone, and i could start over on a clean slate with her? Thanks for reading this wall of text!

Did she know you were interested, if she was unaware that you were interested than you probably aren't in the friend zone. Just chat her up and see how she responds if you are aware of her body language you should be able to tell whether she has put you into the friend zone or not.

[Integra GS-R *BANNED*]

Me and the love of life were best friends before we started dating, she is the world to me, what m getting at here is that nothing worth it is easy and sometimes you have to just confess your feelings, just try to do it casually. I'm so glad I told this girl how I felt. Sometimes it's worth the risk but what you need to do first is give hints like tell her she is looking gorgeous today, tell her she is funny like after she tells a joke say "(her name) you are like the funniest person like ever" and make her feel special and cared about and someone notices her for the beauty she is not just because she has a nice ass or something.