Self help thread

Just going to build on this thread in the future I ask the mods to please wait to close until I finish fully. I am going to add more information on each problem to help if you don't want to talk to me or any one else.

You are loved, you are amazing, and you can do great things. ​

Please no matter what problems you have, what your going through, or possibly what your about to do, think about it and talk to some one first. I am here from experience and here to help. I mean it from the bottom of my heart no matter who you are and how much I don't even know you I do love you and more than likely some one else does too.

Problems I've experience,

Bulimic: This was the first thing I started doing and the longest lasting one. This is a hard thing to deal with, at least for me, but you can get through it with help.

Loneliness: I have actually been surrounded in a party by people I know and have felt extreme loneliness. I had to fix alot of my other problems before I was able to start working on this one.

Not fitting in: There was a bunch of friends I had throughout high school, but knowing the fact that I was different and that if I came out my friends and family would leave me made me feel like I didn't belong. I kinda worked through this though.

Alcoholism: I actually started this to deal better with my emotions rather than cutting myself, then started cutting myself to quit this.

Small drug use: Alcoholism lead to this and it started off with smoking weed at an early age and lead to pills later on. This was replaced with cutting at the same time of alcoholism.

Cutting: This was my first way of dealing with emotion, started in middle school and kept through early high school. Quit and started partying and then started again after I stopped. Been clean for 3 months. There are many ways to help you stop. Rubber band around your wrist, writing with a red marker to simulate blood, and distractions.

Suicidal thoughts:This does not always go along with cutting, but can with alot of people. If your at this point Please talk to me or some what. I promise you I do not judge and would really really like to talk to you if you are.

Loving yourself: I actually have huge problems with this. I am still working on it, but if I'm getting better at all it is being a very slow process.

and other:

My Child hood story is so so fucked up, I know what it is like to go through alot of shit, but I'm not posting this thread to talk about me, its to help you.

Honestly at times I can be an attention whore, but this thread is not about me. It is about helping you. Please pm me, email me, talk to some one if your going through any of this. I swear I will keep everything anonymous. Email is [email protected]

You do not have to pm or post, if you want privacy.

 

i find most of the things you are mentioning i have been through aswell but for me it was all part for growing up and working through problems really it has made me a stronger person from it! I still continue to use illicit drugs but in great moderation (every few months) just like other drugs (alcohol and caffeine) every few weekeneds. All of the things that you have mentioned are ones that you can get through just like any other thing in the world if you beleive and put your mind to it!

Peace Love Unity Respect <3

 

This helped me a bit but still my life is fucked up.
I'm getting teased don't have many friends and parties are à hell for me.
I'm really skiny but I eat allot...
I would like to have more muscles to defend myself getting beated up.

 

Then stand up and fight. I am skinny, but my friends are afraid of me because they know how shit turns bad when I get angry. You can do it too.

 

The thing is that I think fighting Will be make it worser and I'll loose for sure.
Thanks.

 

Thanks for sharing, helps others feel more open i think about what they are feeling/going through.