Friendship/Relationship Issues (Very Confused)
I'm 13 and I dated a 17 year old on an Online Game. We first started going out after being best friends for about a year. We fell madly inlove with eachother, I had never felt that way before. A few months later about a day before he was forced to leave the game forever he told me he didn't love me anymore. Ofcourse I was heartbroken. Before that he had been talking to me about how I should find someone better than him and someone my age who I could actually have a future with in real life. (We were planning on meeting eachother in real life YEARS later) I thought I was never going to see him again so I started going out with another Online friend of mine who is actually only a few months younger than me. They both knew eachother but they were completely opposite and hated eachother. My ex was mature and serious, my current boyfriend is immature, but that's not much of a surprise for a boy his age with ADHD. Three months later about a week into me and my current boyfriends relationship my ex returned. We were totally cool with the break up and we acted as if nothing happened, we were still best friends. Although we did flirt just a little bit. (I can't help it that I'm still inlove with him...) I hadn't told him about my current boyfriend yet but when he did he seemed cool about it, which made me glad. But the next morning when I got on he told me he didn't want to ever talk to me again, he said he saw me as the "enemy" now. I don't get it...just because I'm dating his opposite who he hates and thinks is a troll doesn't mean we can't be friends...or does it? I'm highly confused at this point... Please help me, I really want my friend back. I've been depressed ever since and I've tried to talk to him about it but he just won't listen, as always. Please help me...