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Old 06-15-2012, 07:54 AM
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Comment ITT: Need help with confidence problems with girls (getting in)

Fuck, I feel weird asking a forum for help but some of you guys give good help. Here's some background information about me.

- 15 years of age
- Not socially awkward
- Can keep a conversation going
- Not ugly, above average (from what I've told, don't call me cocky, I'm far from it)
- Goes out heaps
- Makes friends easily
- Dress good
- Heaps of friends
- Not chubby, fat or made of only skin and bone.

Alright. I make friends really easy with guys and girls but only through real life contact. My problem is when I try going from being friends with them (not friend-zoned) to hinting I want to hook up with them. Majority of the time suck at hinting to them that we should hook up and giving that flirty impression (because I lack confidence) unless they're really keen themselves, then I just go with the flow.

I don't know what else to write but that's the main problem. How do I build up confidence in that area? How do I make the next move over text/facebook or in real life?
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Old 06-15-2012, 10:41 AM
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Default Re: ITT: Need help with confidence problems with girls (getting in)

To start, you simply one out for dinner during a conversation and they'll get the idea.

If she tells you that she doesn't like you in "that" way, tell her that it's cool, and that you were actually asking her if she wanted dinner with you and your friends or so
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Old 06-17-2012, 09:05 AM
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Default Re: ITT: Need help with confidence problems with girls (getting in)

Same here bro, same here. I was told it was something to do with your early childhood, like a tramatic event that involved being denied or hurt whether verbally or physically.

I was confident in all area's except for this same area. Actually, searching for how to be confident, actually made me lose every ounce of confidence I had in every area to this day. Don't want to go into details, but I'd advise you to stop right here before you get into the same situation I'm in.

I started getting curious and searching for answers about the same exact time as you, and now I'm 16, and my life is fucked. It sounds really retarded, but I'm actually a prisoner of my own mind.
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