I met a girl in college about 2 years ago, after a few months we mutually became best friends, she got into a relationship with another girl about a year into our friendship, that was fine, she was still my best friend, we were inseparable. Her girlfriend cheated on her quite a few times, her girlfriend also broke up with her a few times just for the sake (I think she likes watching my friend suffer, and I don't think she really loves her), and I was there to help her through her shaky relationship, she was really depressed after it. Everything was really good until about 2 months ago, she just completely stopped talking to me, it's like she suddenly lost interest about me overnight, I can't think of anything I might have done to cause this. We sit together in class but she doesn't show any interest in me, she doesn't start conversations or try to carry them on, she won't speak to me on facebook or text me anymore..

I feel heartbroken that this is happening to me, she's one of the only people I trust and I don't have many friends at all

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Honestly, this has happened to me before, and you might just have to let it all out.

No I don't mean break down in front of her and cry, just let her know that even if she is ignoring you that you still love her (As a friend) and that you'll be there for her no matter what. And if you did do anything wrong, you didn't mean to and you're sorry.

She could just be very cautious about everyone. She's been hurt by this girl, and could be incredibly afraid to trust anyone. You just have to let her know you're their for her even if she doesn't respond she'll have to have seen the text. Throw a rock at her so she gets your attention, pass a note (Like its high school lol), spam her inbox.

Just let her know you care !

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This ^

Also is she with that girl at the moment? (while she is ignoring you).

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It may be that the other girl that she is with is turning your friend against you. You have to show her that you care but don't force the issue otherwise you may accidentally push her further away.

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Yeh that's why I asked if he is currently with her, I just didn't want to say it and get it in his head at the moment.

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Well my friend told me that she thinks her girlfriend has deleted some of her older friends off facebook that she doesn't speak to much (my friends old best friend Luke got deleted off her facebook and messaged her asking why), and when my friend asked her gf if she removed him she denied it, when theres no reason why my friend would remove him.. Her girlfriends kind of weird, I think she tries to play mind games with her, she doesn't love her at all, she's cheated on my friend about 5 different times with a few guys. I think maybe she has something to do with not being friends with me any more to be honest

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Her girlfriend could have simply manipulated her into thinking that you're the bad guy in this situation.

I hate to say it, but apparently your friend really loves this girl and is so deeply in love that she'll let her come in between your guys friendship.

It's really hard to fix that.

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